More Than Words

People express their thoughts by means of words, but sometimes it is difficult to find the right words to express what you are thinking. That is why it often presents you with many problems.


Someone once said,


Curb your tongue, lest it curbs you .
That is true, but I usually make problems for my self because I do not obey it.


Telling the truth is may be sincere, but it can hurt other people. And sometimes I have to say what I do not want to say by way of an excuse or to defend myself. It does not mean that I am actually lying, but using it to help the person understand what I really want to say.
Ahthough, I have been thinking that I should only say things which are helpful. Words, which express what I really want to say may be the very words which the listener does not want to hear and this could cause even more problems.


It is no use crying over spilt milk. I ask myself if it would have been better to have said nothing and to have hoped that time would solve the problem, assuming that a solution can be found.


So, because the problem remains unsolved, I would welcome the opportunity to use some milk again at a later date.